Evil mom in me strikes

Once in a while we have these ups and downs in our kid's eating behavior. That is when I have to really really come up with a new dish. Believe me, it is quite a challenge! I'm sure all the moms with a 2+ age group at home will empathize with me. Moms always wish for their infants to grow faster so they could fed all the external delicacies of the world. It always remains a wish if the child is not a great eater. It is times like these your child went back to those infant days, where, all it ate/drank was mother's milk and would just quietly go back to sleep with that satisfied look, smile and tummy!

Here's  something that became a huge hit last week at home. Mint + Carrot Chapaties or Parathas, how ever you want to christen it. We named it colorful Parathas. While you prepare the dough,
-> to the flour (2 cups),
-> add a whole big carrot in grated form,
-> chop a cup of mint leaves or spinach or Methi (Fenugreek) leaves or any greens that you want your child to eat, but doesn't eat otherwise ;-)
-> a pinch of salt

Now, mix all and make the dough. When you actually start making the breads, spread it out evenly, apply a thin layer of ghee (melted butter), this adds to the softness if you plan to send it as a snack packed in your kid's bag. Fold it from all sides and again press/ spread it out. If using a chapathi maker, it does both the pressing and cooking job. If doing it manually, heat the frying and make sure the paratha well cooked in both sides.

If eating immediately, it tastes great with butter. If packing as a nutritious snack, apply some ketchup & roll-it-up.

If Salman c(kh)an, you think Rajni C(k)ant ??

A friend had posted this video on facebook and more than the trailer I enjoyed her comment - "please don't forget to leave your brain at home to enjoy fully!" How very true!



To me it looks like a "serios" comedy version of Jim Carrey's "The Mask". As all the crazy fans always say, what has Rajni not attempted or what is it that Rajni Can't ?

There's only one thing I can appreciate about this whole Endhiran thing, that Big B and Rajni are of the same generation more or less the same age, but this super star still thinks, acts & does things young and even gets to romance the former's daughter-in-law.

Right now the question is, If Salman C(kh)an rule the Box office with his dubakooru Dabangg, you think Rajni C(k)ant do so with Endhiran ?

6 PM IST : Then & Now

Then - We were taught to open the front (main) door and light the vilakku (lamp) @6pm.
Now - I'm teaching my son to SHUT all the doors and windows and switch on the mosquito repellent @6pm.

Duh!

Tamil heroes

Impressive video and I hope the right message reaches all...

That complete south Indian...

What triggered this post is the below song Jagadoddharana by Bombay Jaysahri in Carnatic-fusion form.



Yesterday being Janmashtamai, I took to hearing some krithis on Krsna. A friend on facebook had posted this Jagadodharan by B'bay Jayashri, as I heard her "Madhukara Manikyana.." in the anupallavi - the thought struck me. It is actually "Magugala Manikyana" meaning "gem among children" [Manikyam = Gem, Magu = child in Kannada]. What I do not understand is, when they render such a wonderful composition of Sri Purandara Dasa, wouldn't they take that extra care to not to alter the meaning/essence of the song. On the other hand Madhukara is honey bee in Sanskrit. It is still an excellent rendition by her, if only the pronunciation, meaning were taken care of. I'm still biased - when it comes to devotional songs, it is MS Subbulakshmi or M L Vasantha Kumari or Bala Murali Krishna who bring in the correct pronunciation, there by the meaning, their understanding of the composition helps them in bringing out the correct emotion.

As I had these running through my mind - there was an other parallel track of thoughts - if I should say,

1. I'm Lucky
2. I'm blessed
3. Or just thank my parents
for having given me the opportunity to learn to read/write/speak all the Carnatic languages - Sanskrit, Telugu and Kannada apart from Tamil and Malayalam that flows in the blood and six years of music from the land of  Annamayya and Purandara Dasa. Not only am I able to appreciate the music and the meaning of the compositions by our saints but today am in a position to even point out such linguistic mistakes (!!!)

Photoscape

While I searched for a suitable tool to get the copyright signature on our photographs, came across a many including the very simple water mark by Picasa up-loader. One such free tool that served the purpose is the Photoscape. Not very complicated, easy to edit and draw signatures on images. Even though I'm yet to figure out the font which provides the copyright symbol, for now, I am quite satisfied by drawing it using Lucida calligraphy font. For a free download, try http://www.photoscape.org/ps/main/download.php

Bitter gourd Kosumbari

On the way back from Coorg, we pit-stopped at Kamat Lokaruchi (on Mysore road) for lunch. We are all fans of bitter gourds at home and any new dish made out of it, we welcome with open hands/mouth :-) Here's one I learnt from them - a kosumbari (pachadi) made with bitter gourd.

1 long or 2 small bitter gourds, chopped into lean, equally sized pieces.

(some senior citizens at home say that we should not cook bitter gourds in odd numbers, one of those "dont know why?" facts)

small and equal quanities of mustard, urad and channa dhal, pinch of Asafoetida for the seasoning.

pinch of turmeric

3 tsp of your favorite sambhar powder (home made/mom made/ MTR or 777)

salt to taste.

pinch of red chilli powder.

1 bowl of curd/yogurt or thick buttermilk

1 large onion, chopped.

some Coriander and curry leaves, chopped.

In a pan or kadai, heat some oil, add the seasoning essentials. To this, add the chopped bitter gourd. To make the dish even faster - just before adding it to the pan, one can steam cook the chopped vegetable (make sure it doesn't get soggy) for 5 mins like idli or toss it in boiling water for 5 mins and drain it well or even cook in the microwave for 10 minutes. You need to wait till it gets deeply fried and becomes crunchy chunks. Add the salt, turmeric and sambhar powder and mix well. Allow it to cool.

In the meantime, take a bowl of thick buttermilk or curd, add the chopped onions and the greens. To this curd, add a pinch of salt and a pinch of red chilli powder. Once the fried bitter-gourd comes to room temperature, add to the curd and mix well.

This is a great substitute for Raita and a yummy side dish for Methi parathas or even plain roti. I have a feeling it will go well with coconut rice aka thengai sadam.

End of Mango season, so what ?

We still have these yummilicious ones...

a Melony-stalactite

Jordan makes a debut in Bollywood

One week after landing here, for the first time I get control of the remote and switched to something other than Cartoon Network. 2 channels up, it is Channel [V] and guess what ? I am greeted by the lovely videos/photographs of Jordan through this recent Pooja Bhat's movie, Kajraare starring Himesh and a Pak girl, Mona Liza. Who cares about the star cast, but at least for the sake of nostalgia of our Jordan trip, i think I'll try to watch this movie.

Kudos to Pooja Bhat. Its a beautiful country - must see! Indian passport holders do not require a visa to Jordan. It is visa on entry since November 2009. So, if you are looking for an exotic/historic/adventure filled vacation - Jordan is also an option :-)

Locations in the order of appearance -

0:00 Mt. Nebo near Madaba, the Moses memorial from where Moses spotted the promised land, Israel.

0:10 - Amphitheatre in Jarash

0:20 - Red Sea, Aqaba

0:28 - the Siq in Petra

0:48 - Jarash, Roman remains, main street columns

1:25 - Deserts of Wadi Rum

0:00 - Wadi rum, red colored sand in the deserts

0:25 - Karak Castle

0:40 - Jarash, the amphitheatre

0:45 - Petra , The treasury

1:22 - The Siq in Petra

Quick Carrot Halwa

3pm to 4pm in the afternoons is when the snack alarm in his tummy usually rings. And today it had a special desserty appetite. He was 18 months old, when the word "Mi Mi" came into existence. We used to give him fruits, sweets and cakes and some exotic cookies saying "yummy yummy". And even more was the influence of the famous Wiggles number "Fruits salad, yummy yummy"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gB4MNu6W9sg

So, he comes to me saying, "Amma, edanum Mi Mi venum", meaning he wants something yummy yummy. I ask him if he wanted to eat sliced carrots dipping them in honey or sugar. He suggests back to me, "that Mi Mi you make with carrots, can you make that now ?" So 20 minutes and he had it in his hands. At the time when there are emails floating around asking people not to make use of a microwave, I'm putting up a quick recipe for a microwaved carrot halwa. This recipe comes from a cook book. I gifted a microwave to my MIL in 2005 and she mentioned to me about this recipe that she discovered in the cook book that came with it. Never had i had the chance to try it and have always been doing the traditional grating carrots and cook on stove method. It has taken me 5 long years to try it :-).

8-10 large carrots

100 ml milk

1 cup sugar

1 tsp ghee or melted butter

To garnish : 10 black currants (or) golden raisins (and) 10 almonds (or/and) Cashews, pinch of Cardamom powder or sprinkle some of their seeds.

Cut the carrots in random order, we need not grate them. Transfer the pieces into a blender/mixer, add the sugar on top and add the milk at one go or depending on the efficiency of the blender you could add little by little. Blend well. Transfer this carrot juice into a thick microwave safe container. Place the bowl in the microwave and let it cook for 15 minutes. Bring it out, add the ghee and all the items that you wish to garnish with, mix well and put it in for 5 more minutes.

Zeh Hakol, yummy yummy warm carrot halwa is ready to be served. If you have the habit of stocking ice creams, relish the warm carrot halwa with a scoop of vanilla ice cream.

For the love of baking...

Fruit and Nut Loaf - No added Sucre

In the midst of cleaning and clearing the kitchen before we vacate the house I get carried away by these left over chunks of walnuts, almonds, black currants, dates, apricots and dried plums. I wanted to get rid of them so I can claim I cleared a shelf in the kitchen today! But how ? It is impossible for me to just eat all of those dry fruits at at that very moment in order to get rid of those bottles. A also calls out, "amma pashikaradu, edanum snack kudu" meaning "mom am hungry, give me a snack". I didn't want to do anything elaborate. So tried something like a fruit and nut bread with no sugar, no eggs, no vanilla extract, no butter, no milk. Just simplified plain whole wheat bread with dry fruits and nuts in it.

I used,

2 tsp instant yeast

50 ml lukewarm water

3 cups whole wheat flour

1 cup all purpose flour

1 tsp baking powder

1 tsp salt

less than 1 tsp of cinnamon powder

a bowl or 2 full cups of mixed dry fruits and nuts (i used walnuts, almonds, black currants, dates, apricots and dried plums)

Preheat oven to 175 deg C.

In a huge bowl, prepare the yeast by beating it well with lukewarm water for approx 5 minutes. Add the flour and baking powder, cinnamon powder and salt - make a dough by adding water occasionally. Keep it aside by covering it with a damp cloth of about 1 hour. The dough would have risen to a certain level. Now add the bowl of dry fruits and nuts and mix well into the dough. This can be allowed to rise too by leaving aside for few hours. But i was running out of time and so placed the dough in two 10in*4in aluminium baking sheets. Just grease the sheets with butter before placing the dough in order to get that non-stick feel.

Bake for 40 minutes or until the usual tooth prick coming out dry test succeeds. Cool the loaves for a while before cutting. This is a yummy tea time loaf or a healthy morning breakfast since it has no added fat like butter or milk or oil or eggs and no sugar - the dry fruits act as the sweeteners.

Broccoli Dosa

This belongs to the subset of the evil mom's recipes. Thankfully we are in a stage - point of life where I still get to decide and dictate what he should be eating. And I do not think this will go on forever, but as long as I'm in power why not utilize the chances.

After making some stir fried vegetables salad for us,I had some broccoli shoots left behind. I used only the florets in the salad and had a major portion of the stem/stalk left behind. I had not thought of anything for little one's dinner that night. If I was to show him a full bowl of vegetables like ours, no way he was going to oblige and his tumbly would still remain rumbly. Just when i thought I would make him a couple of dosas, i hit upon the idea of broccoli dosa.

Quickly microwaved the broccoli shoots, put them in the blender they turned into a fine paste. Added it to equal portion of the dosa batter and a little salt and voila - brocolli dosa mix was ready.

To start from scratch - (makes approx. 15 dosas)

Soak 1 & 1/2 cup rice and 1/4 cup urad dhal for 3 hours in water

2 cups of finely washed broccoli shoots or florets or the stalk cut into pieces

salt to taste

1 small green chilli (optional)

When it is about time to grind the soaked items, microwave the broccoli for about 7-8 minutes. Add water periodically and grind the rice and the lentil first for a couple of seconds and when the rice is all almost half broken, add the broccoli and grind well until the batter consistency is reached. If you wish to add a little flavor, toss a chilli into the blender.

Heat a pan, pour a ladle of batter at a time to get thin crispy dosas or a little more than that to make thick Adai like dosas which can be enjoyed with butter or ghee + sugar combo by your little ones.

Whole Wheat Bread - II

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This is a continuation of Whole wheat bread - I

I wanted to bake only 1 loaf of bread for starters. I reduced the quantities of the ingredients to nearly half of what was on the video.

2 tsp instant yeast

1 inch square butter, melt and allow to cool

4 cups whole wheat flour

1 cup luke warm water

less than 1/2 cup milk

1 tsp sugar

1 tsp salt

1 towel

bread knife

wooden board

bread pan or aluminium container

2 bowls , 1 small and 1 large, [large to the extent that when u put the flour in, it should be half the bowl. A larger bowl than this will let the dough lose its moisture quickly and the dough might not rise properly. I did this mistake of leaving the dough in an extra large container.]

Coming back to the procedure, as mentioned earlier, i do not have a table top mixer, but aren't we all Indian women champs in making the chapati/roti dough by hand ?

First step, to activate the yeast, i pretty much followed from the the video. In the smaller bowl put the 2 tsp of yeast and add the about 50 ml lukewarm water and stir well with a spoon/spatula for about 5 mins until and a little after you get the fermenting yeast smell. Leave this undisturbed for about 10 minutes. Add the milk and butter and stir well for 5 minutes.

In the larger bowl, take the 4 cups of flour and add salt and sugar. You may want to go happily sit down on the floor and let the hands do some hard work, if not do it your own way. Pour in the yeast+milk+butter mixture. Start playing with the dough, knead it well. People with tendinitis watch out, you do not want to strain your wrists or other arm joints. Add water occasionally, you may want to keep doing this for at least 20 minutes of it is by hand and get it to a consistency where the dough is really really soft and does not stick to the sides of the container and even to your palm. An easier way is to make a ball out of the dough and keep throwing it into the vessel with forcefully. It is a great stress buster if you are thinking of someone you wish to smack ;-). Again check if the dough is exactly half the level of the bowl, if not you may want to move to such a container. Wet a kitchen towel and cover the bowl slightly touching the dough. You are on your own for the next 2 hours for this has to remain undisturbed for the yeast to act and let it rise.

When you are back, the dough should have risen, if not double the amount, at least 1/4th above the original height :-). This was what had happened to me, as mentioned earlier i made the mistake of leaving it in a larger bowl. The dampness of the cloth never reached the dough and it lost its own moisture too. Never mind, get the dough out and knead it on a wooden cutting board. I used my wooden chapathi rolling board for this purpose. Sprinkle some flour on the board in order that the dough doesn't stick.

If you have a bread pan, shape your dough into a similar shape and decorate it with a plait/braid. Refer to the videos in the earlier post for this. I didn't have a bread pan either, so used an aluminium container. Grease the container with a little butter before putting in the dough. Leave the dough again undisturbed for 2 more hours. Cover it with a damp cloth. This is when i achieved maximum rise. Since i had kept in an aluminium container, the corners weren't thick enough and it kind of lost its shape. Never mind, i still managed to bake it.

Set the oven to 175C. Leave the dough in for about 40 minutes. Check after 30 minutes, color matters, you do not want it to become dark brown already. I had to give it an extra 5 minutes, since my dough was still rising when i placed it in the oven. So it took a total 45 minutes for me. Bring it out and allow it to cool. Once cooled, cut it into loaves and enjoy. Else, giving a day to this wheat bread actually helped. The insides had become really soft due to the presence of butter and milk. I didn't use the toaster since it was too fragile, hence used the tava/non-stick pan to heat it, applied butter on either side and it was yumm! Total satisfaction guaranteed!

Whole Wheat Bread - I

Since the time i landed in this holy land i have been wanting to learn to make all varieties of bread that these folks make. The breads are amazing, best of all i have had in my life ! But very very rarely do people make breads at home these days. The ones who make, follow a long procedure of dealing with the flour and dough for over 24 hours. I usually do not prefer these overnight waiting preparations - simply because i forget to soak or refrigerate or should i say i lack patience to wait for that long. I feel like when i start a dish it should just be done in a few hours before i hit the sack. Pita breads were easy so i make them quite often. But my wish of baking a whole loaf of wheat bread remained unsatisfied.

I started googling, there were too many options :-). Spent a good amount of time in browsing through the Expert Village videos on YouTube. The irritating part was the videos had enough information but they were not numbered in chronological order. They were just randomly available. So i had to spend a considerable amount of time in putting them in order before i watched from the beginning - ingredients part to the end - slicing part.

Though the videos are informative, even more annoying part of the videos are that fellow, Brandon Sarkis introducing himself at the beginning of each of those not too long but extremely short clips (3 minutes maximum). But my aim was to make that whole wheat bread happen, so i tried maximum to ignore those introductions.

Here's the actual order of the videos by Expert village on how to make whole wheat bread at home :

Equipments - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bylG2Ro9BRE&NR=1

Ingredients - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Md754oPwblQ&feature=related

Activating yeast - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Md754oPwblQ&feature=related

Adding Flour - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CokGSkEjDUo&feature=channel

Knead Dough - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bXO4hpH8IFQ&NR=1

Grease bowl - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mMTLbVyVUps&NR=1

Dough rising - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jz1uIo4dBmU&NR=1

work with dough - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cs3grZEyZac&feature=channel

Split the loaf - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EoZHy-VsMJA&NR=1

shape the loaf - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9RIUHVFvabQ&feature=related

braid the bread - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S_AM_GRIaXk&feature=related

Baking - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EZ9gBFT_X6g&NR=1

Cool the bread - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HIU2exNa-_4&feature=related

Slice - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GyjWP21L934&feature=channel

I do not have a table top mixer, so altered the steps here and there to my convenience. My next post has the detailed method on how i made my whole wheat bread.

My braided beauty awaits...

Fresh home made whole wheat bread is happening...

Thats my son's neglected white board i tried to put to use in the kitchen.

To all those Tomato lovers (II)...

The tomato thokku or the pickle is the easiest pickle that could be made at home. As far as i have read and heard, no two women use the same mode of preparation of this thokku. I learnt this from my mom. I altered a few steps here and there to my convenience. My sister does it altogether differently with chat masala and more. My cousin, a die hard Hyderabadi does it by sun drying the tomatoes for a week.

After i extracted the puree yesterday, they got converted into this irresistible thokku. A great spread on quick spice sandwiches or for roti/puri/pita with raita, side dish for kichdies and obviously tastes best with the world's best satvik food - thayir sadam aka the curd rice.

Ingredients to make 400gm of thokku,

20 large tomatoes

20 small dry red chillies/ 15 if long

5 tsp fenugreek seeds powder

3 tsp mustard seeds

5 tsp salt

1 tsp turmeric powder

2 tsp cumin powder

2 tsp coriander powder

2-3 pinches asafoetida

5 cloves garlic finely chopped (optional)

1 in ginger finely chopped (optional)

10 tsp cooking oil

Wash and clean the tomatoes in running water. Extract the tomato puree like this. Or alternatively, this is what my mom does - boil a pot of water, turn off flame and leave the tomatoes in the hot water for 10 mins. Remove them from water and peel their skin off. Now grind the skinless tomatoes into a fine paste. Few folks do not bother about the skin and would quickly grind tomatoes in to a paste soon after they wash it. Few skip the grinding part and would toss the tomatoes just by slicing them into 4-5 pieces each. Like i said earlier, no two women seem to follow the same method :-).

Heat 5 tsp of oil in a wok. Add the mustard seeds, let it splutter. Add the dry fenugreek seeds powder and toss them for a couple of seconds. Add the asafoetida and the dry red chillies and toss until the chillies turn from red to shiny brown. Now pour in the tomato puree and allow it to boil. This is a messy fluid that would paint your kitchen red. So bring the heat/flame to low to avoid that extra work of extra rubbing/cleaning of the counters. The puree from 20 tomatoes nearly took 2 hours on low flame to get reduced to the desired consistency i.e 1/4th of its original quantity. Occasionally keep stirring the mix. In between you could get a whole lot of chores done from laundry to clothes pressing to other dinner preparations or even a quick 30 min aerobics work out. Somewhere when it thickness to 1/2 the original quantity, add the salt and all the spice powder and 2 tsp of oil and stir.

When it comes closer to 1/4th, stay close, add the remaining oil and stir frequently. By now the color would have become closer to maroon and the consistency is more or less a thick shiny paste. Serve hot/warm if your meal is ready. Or allow to cool and store/refrigerate in glass or porcelain or plastic container avoid using stainless steel for pickles or for any dish that has high chilly+salt quotient.

Optional : At the end, fry the finely chopped garlic and ginger pieces to golden brown in oil and add to the thick paste/thokku and mix well.

To all those Tomato lovers (I)...

Do you see a grater there ? Oh, yes you do!

This is a great way of making tomato puree without the help of a blender. I learnt this from Vardit while i was teaching her some Indian recipes. This comes in very handy even for the simple south Indian rasam especially when you have a little imp at home who picks and complains, "amma, tholu (skin)". Clean the tomatoes, cut each of them into 2 halves, place the flesh side of the tomato on the grater and grate till you see the thin skin and all the pulp is gone underneath.

We could do the same for most dishes like dhal makhani, lentil soup, rasam, masal that we make for puri, chutney, thokku, pickles - the list is endless even when the tomatoes are skinless.

Stuffed Vine/Grape Leaves

Stuffed Vine Leaves or the Dolma is a total Mediterranean dish famous from Greece to Turkey to Israel. This is actually quite simple to make and has no standard recipe - at least that is what I figured out after asking many a women here and browsing through recipes on the net. This dish is mostly done with meat, without it a great veggie dish.

Main ingredients would be vine leaves, rice, lemon and some mint, rest is all extra and the more you add the more flavor you get.

Ingredients that I made use of,

1 cup rice

20 vine leaves soaked in salt water/ Fresh leave can also be made use of but they have to be boiled well before using.

2 lemons

2 onions, cut into tiny pieces

1 cup peas

1 cup corn

2 carrots - grated

3 cloves garlic, cut into tiny pieces

2 green chillies

some mint leaves

salt to taste

4 tsp olive oil

1. Allow the cup of rice to cook well.

2. Soak the vine leaves in hot water for 15-20 mins in order to get rid of the salt.

3. In a wok, heat olive oil and saute the onions & garlic until golden brown. This preparation was unplanned so i didn't think about any other vegetable and ended up using some frozen peas and frozen corn and added the grated carrots. When they are cooked, add salt and squeeze a full lemon's juice onto the vegetables.

4. Check if the rice is cooked, if so, add the rice on top of the vegetables and mix well. This forms the filling. This is a great vegetable pulav or a veggie lemon rice (whatever you want to name it) for the little ones since there is no chilli factor in it. Especially for the kids who love the tangy lemon taste, this is a great meal.

5. Pull out the vine leaves from the water, just dry them for a couple of seconds in order that the water drips off and spread them out on a sheet or a plate.

6. Take a spoon full of the mixed rice and place it in the middle of the leaf. Cover it from the bottom and the 2 sides and start rolling it upwards till the tip of the leaf. Watch this video for an alternate preparation with meat and on how to roll the leaves too.

7. When all the leaves are stuffed, place then a sauce pan and cover the leaves with a plate that goes into the vessel. This is done to prevent the leaves from expanding/get unrolled when they get cooked. Fill the sauce pan with water until above the plate.

8. Cut a lemon into 4 pieces and the chillies into 2 halves each and some mint leaves -> drop them into the sauce pan. Add a tsp of salt too.

9. Place a lid on the sauce pan and allow it to cook for 15 mins.

10. Open up and serve hot or cool and store with the syrup in the refrigerator and use as a snack on a later day.

Folks who possess idli plates can skip steps 7 through 9 and can steam cook the stuffed leaves for 30-40 minutes. Make the syrup separately and soak the cooked leaves in the syrup for 30 minutes.

Tangy Tomato Dosa

In a land where there is no Urad dhal, this dosa comes in handy. Not that we are surviving without urad dhal at all. We managed to bring a kilo or 2 during our last home trip and i'm just being a little thrifty in using since we have couple of months to go before we return. I found this recipe on a friend's blog and altered it a little.

The below quantity of ingredients make 15 dosas of 6 inch diameter each.

1 & 1/2 cup rice

1/4 cup urad dhal

1/4 cup red lentils

2 tsp fenugreek seeds

Wash them well and soak them separately for 2-3 hours.

1 long green chilli

1 inch tamarind or 1 tsp of tamarind juice

2 tsp salt

2 small tomatoes

Grind the above with the well soaked rice and lentils and fenugreek to the usual batter consistency.

One would easily mistake the batter to thick strawberry milk shake;). Heat a pan, pour the batter one ladle at a time - use butter or ghee or oil of your choice around the dosa. Best had with chutney or sambhar, but we had an appetite for milagai podi and the little one enjoyed his tangy tomato dosa by dipping it in yogurt.

Minty minty spaghetti

Yes, I'm obsessed with mint.

Little A wanted spaghetti for dinner last night. So while he assisted me in cooking the spaghetti, I worked on making the sauce. His way of assisting me is to count the spaghetti sticks and drop them into the boiling water in the saucepan at his own pace.

Cook the spaghetti noodles al dente.

1 cup fresh mint leaves

1 green chilli

salt to taste ( i added 2 tsp for the given quantity)

1 garlic clove

1/4 cup of water

Grind the above and keep aside.

(portions for 300 gm noodles, good enough for 3 people)

1 big onion

1 big tomato

1/2 red pepper

1/2 green pepper

1/2 yellow pepper

Chop the above vegetables into not so tiny - not too big pieces. Heat 2 tsp of olive oil and toss all the vegetables together. Keep stirring on low flame. Remember not to give too much heat else the tomatoes get soggy with their juice. The vegetables should just taste lightly grilled. In the meantime, heat pan or wok with 3 tsp of olive oil, add the cooked spaghetti noodles and mix well until all the oil is taken by noodles. Add the grilled vegetables and pour the mint paste. Mix well, serve hot and enjoy the minty minty spaghetti.

Poppy seed filling for Oznei Haman

Ingredients to make the poppy seed filling for the Oznei Haman or Hamantashchen -

1 cup poppy seeds
1 cup milk
1/4 cup sugar
1 tbsp. butter

less than 1/4 cup raisins

1/4 cup bread crumbs

1/2 tsp. ground cinnamon

Dry saute the poppy seeds a little and powder them. In a sauce pan, add all the above ingredients and keep stirring them occasionally until you get a thick paste that does not stick to the sides of the pan. Allow to cool and start filling.

Broccoli Paruppu Usuli

Banana flower paruppu usuli is said to be the mother of all paruppu usuli. This lentil paste side dish has become a mandatory item in the menu of most weddings these days. My mom used to make paruppu usili during our summer breaks or when ever we had our relatives come over - long list from paati to cousins and we had a crowd of about 10+ at home. My grandma used to say that earlier days, they used to buy vegetables just enough for the family, when unexpected guests arrive in order to bring the vegetable/curry to required extra quantity during lunch they used to make paruppu usuli. Paruppu usulies are traditionally done with any vegetable from the beans family like green beans, avarakkai (broad), kotha varangai (cluster) etc. They are everyone's favorite as far as i know, i have never heard someone disliking it. Kids love it too, especially little A loves it too for the reason that it tastes like Vada.

Broccoli has been a vegetable that i mostly use in our stir fried salads or mushroom-broccoli salad. I have never made or cooked (should i say) an indian curry or side dish out of it. When AA's aunt and family visited us last month, we made a little snack with broccoli. Just microwave the shoots for 5 minutes and dip it a little in olive oil and simultaneously in (idli) milagai podi. Its a nice crunchy-karam desi appetizer for all. When the talk was about broccoli, AA's aunt happened to mention that she makes paruppu usuli with them. I had been wanting to try it since we all love brocolli and we all love paruppu usuli too.

To make the lentil mix (usuli) we need,

1/2 cup of channa dhal

1/2 cup of toor dhal or Masoor dhal (red lentil)

Soak them both separately for 30 minutes.

Drain well and grind them both by adding,

4 red chillies

some curry leaves

pinch of turmeric powder

pinch of asafoetida (hing)

salt to taste

Add very little water only if required, the paste should be thick just the way we grind for paruppu vada. Once the paste is ready, steam cook it for 10-15 minutes just the way we steam cook idli. It should cook till the time when you put in a tooth prick it should come out clean. Once done, allow it to cool.

Cut the Broccoli into tiny shoots and wash them well. Microwave them for not more than 10 mins or just steam them over boiling water for 10 minutes. We do not have to essentially cook them soft. The broccoli shoots should stay a little hard and crunchy.

When the lentil paste and shoots are ready, heat a wok or tava. Add,

2 tsp oil

Saute some mustard seeds, urad dhal and pinch of hing for tadka

3 red chillies

curry leaves

Stir fry briefly and add the broccoli shoots and crumble the lentil paste over it. Mix them well and leave the wok closed with a lid on low flame for a couple of minutes so the crumbs and broccoli blend well. Voila, broccoli paruppu usuli is ready to be had with rasam rice or the world famous satvik food - yummy bagala bath/curd rice/dadhyonnam. I fry it for a little bit longer since we love eating it as a starter or appetizer :-).

Oznei Haman

Oznei Haman (meaning Haman's ears) or Haman Taschen are the triangular shaped Purim delicacy of Israel. Purim is celebrated on a full moon day according to the lunar calendar followed by the Jews. It occurs any time between mid Feb to mid March. Surprisingly it coincides with Masi Magam of Tamil Calendar and Holi. Anyways, Purim marks the celebration of the victory over the enemy, Haman. Its a kid's affair like the Halloween in the US.

Thanks to Ora who gave me the method of preparation.

We require,

2 eggs

2 cups all purpose flour

1 cup whole wheat flour

1 & 1/2 cup of sugar

a pinch of salt

vanilla or rose essence

2 spoons baking powder

any filling - chocolate/dates spread/poppy seeds/marmalade/strawberry jam. I used chocolate in some and dates spread in a few. Traditionally it is made with poppy seed filling.

Preheat the oven to 180 degress.

Beat the eggs. Pour in the sugar, baking powder, the essence, pinch of salt and mix well. Add the flour and mix well. Spread the dough out and use a cookie cutter to make small circles or alternately just use your palm (grease your palm with olive oil or melted butter for it may stick) to spread out a lemon sized dough. Fill a small amount of chocolate and fold it in the form of a triangle.

That's it, make as many as you can. With the above quantity of ingredients I made 25 of the sizes in the picture. Place them on a cookie sheet or aluminium foil and bake for not more than 10 minutes.

Best had with a cup of chai :-)

You've got (other's) email

We all know Gmail is buggy. But, does the Gmail team say its a feature ? Are we not glad about the fact that they have accepted it and even provided us with the required justification - http://mail.google.com/support/bin/answer.py?hl=en&answer=10313#

Well, am talking about this one bug of first.last@ being treated as firstlast@. Since the time we have owned a gmail id, we have been many a times equally annoyed and entertained by messages. To some i politely reply back saying that its not 'me' who they are looking for. There are few sensible brains out there who immediately apologize and carry on with their conversation with the right person,thankfully, not including me there after. But, there are the rest - who in spite of all the gentle reminders keep annoying us.

Resume - These are the most common ones. Does it make me happy that there are many a HR personnels and recruiters by my name ? No, thank you not one bit. Because these folks sending out their resumes - the biggest blunder from their side - they do not make a proper note of the email-id of the person they speak to or the one who asks for their data. For example, if they spoke to someone by name Adya, they figure out all possible ways of writing the name and then send their resume out to,

adya@gmail

adyaa@gmail

adhya@gmail

adyah@gmail

and whatever they can come up with. Given a chance, I definitely do not want to recruit them!

If this is the story of the job hunting-laid back group who email not just one person but many by the same name, there are these well established and educated folks holding responsible positions, making the same blunder. A mail from someone in Dept of ECE, Wayne State Univ. And the irony, this mail is received by my Mr. Phd :-p

"Hope your GRE preparation is progressing smoothly.Scoring high in the verbal section requires lot of hard work.Make sure that u complete atleast 1 word list per day along with a decent practice of RC.You should be finishing RC in a couple of days,after which you need to start with Sentence completion and subsequently Analogies.ALL THE BEST.Study well"

A tutor from NIIT sends a mail out to the pupil, "Dear Axxx, Your java class starts on 13/12/09 10.00am.we are not able to reach you through phone. Regards, Jxxxxx NIIT SALEM"

These are human blunders. The Gmail bug [adyah==adya.h errors]has made us receive umpteen number of passport copies, source code from software professionals. A s/w engineer emails us thus, "Mr xxx, How r u? how was the life, I am fine, I have on doubt please clarify. I have one geodatabase is having 4 lakhs polygons. I want export to shapefile is it possible or not. we tried but not get it." Oh, Yes, "How was life ?" is the apt question if the person reading this died of verbal crucifixion.

A hilarious mail conversation that we shared with our parents and the whole family had a good laugh. I blame not the affectionate mother but the son, who should have sent them a test mail or written his email address in a diary or a safe place for his parents. This is from a mother to her son who has just set foot in US of A for his graduate studies. This fellow, looking at the tone of the email, has been talking to them on and off since his landing but looks he really hasnt written any email to them and has only conveyed verbally his email address to them. The 1st mail from the mother goes thus,

" hi

thank u for ur greetings

how do u feel there?

are u getting enough water(tap) water to drink?

what did u cook today

what are u doing for washing clothes?

ur room mates are daiictians or from other college/

i think they are from UP.

what is ur daily routine there?

take care and eat regularly,and eat healthy food.

yesterday was ganesh chathurthi. did u remember?

for taking bath do u get hot water?

is geyser there?wi

will u come for g talk or skype today at 8pm like yesterday?

bye then

rest in next mail

amma &appa"

This is a perfectly normal email from a mother whose son has for the first time is staying away from their watchful eyes and in a different continent. We were reminded of all those questions our parents and even our friends's parents asking us about Pilani, which is very much within India. I remember my friends parents even used to sympathize with mine for i was studying in a desert leaving behind all the luxuries of a college in Erode or Coimbatore. Need we say about the first time US traveller's parents ? My Mr. was a little apprehensive about replying back to this email saying "I am not the A you are looking for" which is usually the response or in this case, something like "I am not your son...". He feared, what if the parents panicked that their son has disowned them just hours after landing in America ??

So silence prevails and we do not respond at all and looks like their biological son too never emailed them. 1-2-3-4 days gone, 5th day, we receive an other email from the mom,

"Hope u will get on well there.everyday at least u send one mail sothat u r alright-we can assume.Keep contact always. amma"

In the meantime, the mom had also sent out a gtalk invite. Neither did we reject nor accepted it. But our Mr. was feeling sorry for this affectionate mother whose son never bothered to call or email them. He also wanted to convey and make her understand that all the while she had been emailing not her son, but, someone else by the same name and spelling too. So, he bravely accepts the chat invite to put an end to the pseudo mom-pseudo son connection - make her understand and to some extent have control over the emotions of the mom at run time as they chat.

It was a lazy saturday afternoon, a ting-ping sound alert, a message appears on his gtak.

Mom: hi. laptop vangiyacha?

Mr.: hello

Mom: hi (again)

(takes a look at Mr's profile pic on gtalk)

Mom:"what photo? un face madiri illai"

This was ultimate - we laughed our guts out, blaming that irresponsible son and empathizing with the mom's feelings. We shared this dialogue thats it, the whole family was in a roller coaster of laughter for almost 1 hour. Of all the questions about the geyser, hot water, remembering to take bath - this photo-face thing topped the list!

We resume ourselves and now was the moment, Mr. gathers guts to type 'the' line - "my name is first name last name." And then the unutterable yet had to be uttered at this point. "i am not your son." We were imagining all sorts of drama like the mom having a stroke or high palpitation due to this heart breaking message from a son. There was a long pause for 3 minutes, which seemed really long at that moment for us, we didnt know about their end. The very response of my name is.. should have conveyed the message, but just to make sure she was alive and to break the ice Mr. typed, "i think you got the wrong email address. " Yet again a pause, and the last we heard from her was, "Oh. sorry."

When 60 year olds behave like 6 year olds...

Mail 1: "My 3 BHK flat at yyy zzz is available for rent. Expected rent is 17k (negotiable)."

Response : "Kutta kamina haramka......"

The authenticity of the message is still not known. The mail says its been sent from a blackberry or we do not know if its one of those geeks playing around with some pop mails. God knows whats the enmity between the 60 yr old man from whose id the mail seems to have been originated from and the actual person who sent it.

Thats the story from the rental side. Lets hear the selling side,

Person 1 : "My house nnnn in yyyzzz is ready for sale" something like that.

First response on this thread,

Person 2 :"Have you done any interior? How much are you quoting for this? If you can answer these two questions it would be nice."

Person 1 : "YES, Flat includes modular kitchen and modular ward robes (3 in no), have done customization and electrical fittings. Ready to move Flat, all these works costed me around 4 Lakhs Total price I am expecting is 70 L (including customization cost) + registration

If you don't require modular ward robes, we can take them out"

OK, this has justified his pricing enough. Now comes the actual drama -

Person 2 : "I think the running rate in yyy zzz is not more than 60 for a flat of that size. Any bargaining possible?"

Bargaining ?? Is that the term you use when you speak real estate and when you speak in lacs ? I thought bargaining or haggling applied to 'kathirikkai, vendai kai vyaparam' meaning eggplant and okra business.

And in a community there are always some silent observers whereas some are not -

Person 3 : "I know from a broker that a yyy zzz flat sold for 66 lakhs with out wood work or electrical fittings. 70 is fair price with wood work and electical fittings... any way good luck with bargaining.. . "

Now, we do not know if this person really heard it from a broker or if he is just trying to press the point that whatever Person 1 is quoting is right so he could do so too when it comes to selling his flat. And why the good luck, who is he trying to wish here ? Who is going lose and who's going to gain in this bargaining act ? And again bargaining strikes! Hmph!

Our man looks like being in a great hurry to get rid of the property and returns thus,

Person 1: "My quote is 66 L (including all deposits) with out customization cost. This is running price, no much bargaining pls"

This reminds of a famous Koundamani-Senthil comedy from movie "Ulathai allitha", where the said comedian or villian goes, "Tempo ellam vechu kadathirken pa, konjum pottu kudupa" meaning he kidnapped using a tempo so he's kind of trying to bargain for a higher price.

One must remember that all this so called 'bargaining' is happening in public i.e reply-all mode. Looks like the bargaining bit helped after all, that he came down to 66 from 70 in just 2 email exchanges. A funnier aspect of this whole conversation is, we do not know if the person selling the property is really aware of the fact that the person trying to bargain is only yet an other property owner in the same community and was only trying to ask the rates for GK purposes and is not really interested in buying. Or may be that person was gathering pointers to sell their own or just to check the extent of possible bargaining. Unlike yesterday's passive (shy) 30 year olds ( 3 year olds), these are the nosy citizens who cannot just ignore messages that are meant for prospective tenants and buyer and NOT for them. They just feel like the ice-breakers and have to have a say in every mail thread. I'm only reminded of those inquisitive 6 year olds in their 1st or 2nd grades. When the teacher asks the class a question, all of them go in chorus, "Me, me, me", "I know it, i know it" instead of quietly raising their hands and letting the teacher choose a pupil to answer.

When 30 year olds behave like 3 year old...

"Kalyanam panni paar, veettai katti paar" meaning perform a wedding and see, build a house and see is not a faltu (something like worthless) statement after all. The difficulty in organizing a wedding by the bride's father is matched to the difficulty in building a house. The wedding part, once the marriage is performed the parents can be rest assured the girl is in safe hands and they take good care of her and vice versa. But when it comes to the house, a flat in our case, its a life long tragedy of putting up with few jug-heads. The book, Bonsai Manager clearly states that the politics in running a company of the size of Tata (s) is far less than the politics of running an apartment society. This is so very true!

When you buy an apartment, you dont want to be left behind on some important news and notices about Khata transfer, Service Tax and many more - things that require all of the clients to stand together to fight against the builder or the government. So we subscribe ourselves to the e groups or the common floor community mailing list and all those on earth. For once i acted wisely and subscribed with my mail id that i retired a few years ago. Retired as in I dont use it for mailing/ stay-in-touch purposes but for other uses like e-cards, e-shopping registration, e- reservation etc. I make it a point to check it once in a month or so. I happened to browse through it today and noticed many many funny yet annoying instances. But, looking at the amazing emails, looks like i will be checking that inbox more often - a great way of entertainment!

Corporate mailing rule1 : Do not subscribe your official id to any kind of social networking sites or e groups.

Do we adhere to these rules, NO, NEVER. First thing we do as we receive our mail id at work, email all our folks and send a note asking them to add this new-official-mail-id to all the existing groups. Put the same mail id on Orkut or Facebook or Twitter, simple because they are banned at our workplace and we will remain clueless what our friends are up to when we are at our desks just pretending to work. And the need to be updated with all/any kind of news the very nanosecond the sender clicks send.

Corporate mailing rule2: Never do a Reply-all, unless your message is of public interest or one that requires wider audience and opinions.

No and never adhere to this rule too, even if its the same message they are trying to propagate, they reply-all saying, " Please do not reply-all" instead of just sending it to the sender alone.

The next hilarious bunch of mails i noticed are the ones announcing the availability of the flat for rent or sale. Of the 40 minutes i spent in reading through the 75 odd emails, i noticed 30+ friends of the current occupants wanting to rent a flat, 5+ friends wanting to buy, 20+ owners wanting to rent out , 4+ owners wanting to sell. Note that these gentlemen and ladies sending our mails asking "if any flat is available for..." are not doing so for themselves but for their friends who are trying to move to Bangalore from elsewhere. When they are so very concerned and really want to help them find a house, since they are already on this mailing list, they should simply do a search in their archives/ Inbox and give them the contact details of the already advertised flats/owners. No, they will never do that, simply because - its home work <=> hard work.

Instead they plainly send out a mail saying "my good friend is looking for an apartment to rent..." CC-ing him of course, is the highest honor of help they are doing to that person. And this fellow who is interested in renting out, does not email the person on CC, rather would do a reply to the whole egroups announcing his flat's availability.

The same goes with buying and selling. The owner who wants to sell does not do his home work reading through his old emails and contacting those prospective buyers, but once again emails the group. Assuming that the person who sent a mail out asking if there was any flat on sale would pay attention to his email now. But, why would he, he emailed not for his sake but his friend's, about whom he probably would have forgotten the minute he sent the mail out copying his mail address. And so, this mail now is of no use and again goes into their collection of emails.

When nobody really reads any email, why do they want to get their official ids subscribed ? If you give me an answer that you are the busiest man at work, then 1st thing to do is unsubscribe the official id from the groups. None of the emails are serving their purpose. Even more annoying, getting an Out-of-Office response on egroups. When will these people ever grow up ?Have these people picked up new hobby of email-collection ??

There's an other episode of the nosy 60 year olds who read all their emails, rather every line of the email and reply-all asking unwanted questions. Will write more on it tomorrow may be, when 60 years old behave like 6 year olds.